A medical professional from Moldova has gone viral on social media after sharing an unexpected — and cautionary — message about a deeply emotional tradition: kissing a loved one who has passed away.
Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a physician with nearly 300,000 followers on TikTok, recently posted a video aimed at raising public health awareness around potential medical risks that can occur during close contact with a deceased body
Medical Expert Explains the Health Risks
In the video, Dr. Ivanovik delivers a clear warning to viewers:
“You should not kiss a deceased person.”
He explains that several hours after death — often within the first nine hours — the body naturally begins the process of decomposition. During this time, bacteria can multiply and be released, particularly around the mouth and nasal area.
According to the doctor, close contact such as kissing could expose a person to harmful microorganisms, potentially affecting the sense of smell and increasing the risk of infection.
Viral Video Sparks Emotional Reactions
The video quickly gained traction online, with many viewers admitting they had never considered the health and safety implications of such a common farewell ritual.
Others, however, shared deeply personal responses.
One commenter wrote emotionally:
“I kissed my father goodbye and I would do it again without hesitation. Losing taste or smell doesn’t matter — he was my dad.”
These reactions highlight the powerful emotional weight tied to grief and remembrance.
Balancing Cultural Traditions and Health Safety
Dr. Ivanovik’s message has sparked a broader conversation about how cultural practices, emotional closure, and medical safety guidelines sometimes intersect — and conflict.
In many cultures, physical contact during final goodbyes is seen as an important act of love, respect, and healing. For grieving families, the emotional comfort of a personal farewell often outweighs potential health concerns.